UNDERSTANDING
YOUR KIDS.
Neurodivergent brains run different operating systems. The standard parenting moves can backfire in ways nobody warned you about.
Ten free wiki pages for the years nobody prepared you for. ADHD, autism, RSD, FASD. Meltdowns that show their stage 20 minutes before the storm. IEPs you can actually use. Co-parenting agreements that survive disagreement. Medication decisions that hold up to a 2 AM panic.
Sourced from peer-reviewed work, the Survival Blueprint, and Diane Malbin's 8 Magic Keys. Plain language. Step-by-step protocols. Built for the day the school just called.
PICK ONE.
Start with whichever situation is closest to today. Each page is free and self-contained.
Transition Protocol OS
10/5/2 minute warnings, triple-redundant. ~70% reduction in transition meltdowns.
Read → 02.02Meltdown Early-Warning System
Four stages of an ND meltdown. Catch it in Stage 1.
Read → 02.03The 5-Task Reframe
"Get ready for bed" is five tasks. The micro-command fix.
Read → 02.04Validate-Then-Redirect OS
Order matters. Reverse it and you produce escalation. SB Ch. 1+6.
Read → 02.05Co-Parent Alignment Meeting
30 minutes a month. Six items. Prevent slow drift into misalignment.
Read → 02.06School Advocacy Letter OS
The accommodation request schools can't ignore. Triggers a 30-day evaluation.
Read → 02.07Medication Decision Framework
Eight questions for the prescriber. Thirty-day measurable trial framework.
Read → 02.08RSD Recognition OS
Ten-sign checklist. RSD affects up to 99% of ADHD individuals.
Read → 02.09RSD De-Escalation OS
Don't argue with the emotion. The 6-step First Aid Protocol.
Read → 02.10The 8 Magic Keys (FASD)
The foundational FASD framework. Environment compensates for the brain.
Read →THE SURVIVAL BLUEPRINT
64-page neurodivergent parenting guide. ADHD, RSD, meltdowns, IEPs, co-parenting, medication. Everything for the years nobody prepares you for. The longer treatment of what this wiki pillar covers.